A psychic reading can be an eye-opening experience, offering clarity and guidance on life’s most pressing questions. But what you get out of it depends just as much on how you approach it as it does on the psychic’s abilities.
To uncover the best ways to prepare, we spoke with Orion Phoenix, a renowned spiritual reader and advisor with over two decades of experience in the psychic industry. Holding a Ph.D. in Transpersonal Psychology, Phoenix has evaluated countless psychic services and guided thousands of individuals through their spiritual journeys. He shares five essential tips to ensure your reading is as insightful and meaningful as possible.
Know What You Want to Ask
“The universe speaks in symbols and energy,” Phoenix says. “If you don’t know what you’re asking, it’s easy to miss the message when it comes.”
A reading without direction can feel scattered. While some people come in with an open mind, hoping for general guidance, Orion believes having at least a loose idea of what you want to explore makes a big difference.
Instead of asking vague questions like “What’s my future?”, try focusing on specific areas: “What energy should I focus on in my career right now?” or “How can I heal from past relationships?” Writing down a few key topics beforehand can help keep the session focused and productive.
Choose the Right Psychic for Your Needs
Not all psychics work the same way, and the method they use can impact the type of insight you receive. Some rely on tarot cards, some channel spirit guides, while others specialize in dream interpretation or astrology.
According to Orion, a spiritual reader and advisor may use a combination of these tools—or none at all. The key is to find someone whose approach aligns with your questions.
Orion has worked with many people who felt frustrated after going to the wrong type of psychic. He recalls a client who wanted to connect with her late mother but unknowingly booked a session with an astrologer. While the astrologer provided helpful insights into personality traits and life cycles, the client left feeling disappointed because she expected direct messages from the spirit world.
“I see this all the time,” Orion says. “People book a reading without knowing what a psychic specializes in, then feel let down when they don’t get the answers they were hoping for. A little research can make all the difference.”
Keep an Open Mind—But Stay Grounded
Some people expect a psychic to provide exact names, dates, or a word-for-word prediction of the future. Orion warns against this mindset, explaining that psychic messages often come in symbols, emotions, or impressions rather than concrete facts.
He recalls many instances where clients dismissed insights that didn’t make sense immediately, only to have them come true weeks later. Messages from spirit guides or intuitive readings don’t always reveal their full meaning right away.
“A reading isn’t about proving the psychic right or wrong in the moment,” he explains. “It’s about receiving guidance that unfolds in the way it’s meant to.”
That being said, Orion also emphasizes the importance of discernment. If something feels fear-based, manipulative, or too generic, trust your instincts. A genuine psychic will never try to pressure you or create unnecessary anxiety.
Create a Comfortable Space for the Reading
“Your mindset is everything,” he notes. “The more relaxed and open you are, the easier it is for the psychic to tune into your energy.”
The energy you bring into a reading influences what you receive. Stress, skepticism, or distractions can cloud the experience.
“One of the most common issues I see is people trying to squeeze in a reading while multitasking—checking emails, sitting in a noisy place, or feeling rushed. A psychic reading isn’t just another appointment; it’s a moment of connection. When you create a space of stillness, you invite clearer messages in.”
Orion suggests preparing yourself by finding a quiet, comfortable space—especially for phone or online readings. Some people like to light a candle, meditate, or hold a crystal to create a calming environment. These small rituals help shift the energy and allow for a clearer connection.
“I like to light the candle and hold a grounding stone, like black tourmaline or amethyst, especially if the reading involves deep emotional topics,” he says. “It helps anchor my energy and makes it easier to stay present in the moment.”
For in-person readings, he advises avoiding caffeine beforehand and taking a few deep breaths before the session starts. A clear, grounded energy makes it easier for messages to come through.
Reflect on the Reading and Let It Unfold
A psychic reading doesn’t always provide instant clarity. Some messages take time to reveal their full meaning. Orion encourages people to take notes, record the session (if allowed), and revisit the insights later.
Many times, a single phrase or symbol mentioned during the reading may not seem relevant in the moment but can become significant later on. Dreams, synchronicities, or unexpected conversations might bring additional layers of understanding.
“Think of reading as planting a seed,” he explains. “The insights grow and evolve over time. The key is to stay open to how they manifest in your life.”
Rather than rushing to act on everything immediately, he advises sitting with the information, letting it settle, and noticing how it connects with your experiences in the days and weeks that follow.
Final Thoughts
A psychic reading is an opportunity for insight, but its impact depends on your approach. By setting clear intentions, choosing the right psychic, and keeping an open mind, you allow for a richer, more transformative experience.
Visiting a medium, tarot reader, or intuitive guide can be a transformative experience, and the way you prepare shapes the session. A spiritual reader and advisor provides valuable guidance, but the true power lies in how you apply those insights to your life.